Self Enhancement Tips & Tools

S.E.L.F. Skills

(Self Enhancing Life Fulfilling)

Sedena C. Cappannelli, founder of About Life Inc. shares tips and tools from her Portable Self Enhancement Program and "Self Enhancement Retreats" for women. These skills provide ways to self enhance mind, body and spirit and to live a positive and fulfilling life.


Shifting

This simple movement can be used whenever you need to renew your energy or to release tension. You can Shift any time, as a great refresher from computer or stress related work or to balance your body, mind and emotions and create harmony within. You will create a grounding and healing effect even with a few minutes practice. This movement is for the eyes, improving vision as it increases circulation throughout the whole body.

Stand with your feet shoulder width apart. Bend your knees and feel the energy from the earth coming up through the soles of your feet while you allow your arms to gently swing from side to side. Smile as you take in deep breaths and exhale with the sound of "haaaaa".

Let go of all tension in your body, behind your eyes and in the 300 or so muscles of the face. Let go of all tension and breathe as you relax your shoulders. Allow your eyes to shift without controlling your vision - just relax your gaze as your arms flap from oneside to the next. Now, gradually move higher and higher up your body, gently tapping the body with your open hands until you reach your shoulders. Lightly tap all the way back down the body as you continue to shift from side to side. Allow your arms to slowly come to a stop.

Now, close your eyes and stand calmly as you breathe and feel your new energy. Smile and affirm your oneness in mind, body and spirit; and prepare to continue your day refreshed and in balance.

 

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From an article published in the August/September issue of "Arizona Networking News'

Caring For The Trinity
Mind, Body & Spirit Connection

Do you feel fragmented at times? Is your physical energy and spirit low? Is your mind confused? Does your heart feel sad?

Each of these emotions is a message or trigger from our minds, bodies and spirits telling us to listen, to look deeper, to care more, to slow down, to connect with ourselves and pay attention to what we can do to correct these imbalances before they become dis-ease.

We are built as whole energy systems. By listening to the personal messages that our system is giving us and by practicing ways to connect mind, body and spirit we become loving caretakers of our energy bodies. Just like connecting a plug into its electric outlet, this connection releases our tremendous inner life energy and plugs us into our power source within.

An old Chinese expression says where the mind goes, the Chi, or energy will follow. When our minds focus on, resist or deny negative emotions the energy gets stuck inside our bodies and can cause physical and mental discomfort and illness and disconnects us from our spirits. True health and balance come from keeping this energy moving efficiently throughout the body and engaging the mind, the emotions and the breath.

Whenever there is an imbalance in the flow of this Chi or life energy there will be a disparity or a shortness of breath. We can literally gauge our life's energy by the fullness of our breath. The breath is our guide and compass. The trick is to follow it with awareness. Shortness of breath is a sign that an emotion is shutting us down and cutting off our life energy. Rather than trying to stop the emotion or ignore it, we can accept it for what it is, a part of us at that moment. We can breathe deeply into the feeling and allow it to pass through us.

When you become aware of shortness of breath or a troubling emotion, ask yourself, "what does this emotion have to tell me? Anger masks fear, fear masks hurt and depression. Go to the root of the emotion as you breathe it in and out until it lessens and then breathe in positive energy to take its place. Breathe in and inspire" positive energy and then breathe out and release or "expire" all doubts and constrictions.

The intention is to be at home in the home you occupy, which is your body. As your mind and spirit become more comfortable with the connection to your body the more you will be able to accept and respond positively to the changes that are going on in your life.

by Sedena C. Cappannelli